Random Thoughts about Marriage and Moving
I am just going to try and write some thoughts down in a very stream of conscience fashion. Today I learned how important it is to discuss expectations before marriage. If we don't know what the other person expects, we will never be able to help them enjoy life. It is important to celebrate differences and not dwell on them. Engagement separation stinks. I am nervous about moving someplace new all by myself. I worry that my new car might break down along the way to Illinois. I worry ALS might come to her senses about marrying me. I worry about focusing on the wrong things for our wedding day. I worry about passing classes at school. I worry about not being good enough. I worry about my selfishness and pride. Cross country travel is difficult. I love ALS. I need to treat her with even more respect. I need to pack up my things. I want to say goodbye to those I care about. How can I thank those who have helped me along the path of life? Who do I invite to the wedding? I hate hot humidity! I hate being hot in general. I am too judgmental sometimes. I am good at wasting time. How can I serve those around me? What kind of invitations should we choose? Stay in the eye of the storm. Champaign-Urbana or Urbana-Champaign? What classes? Time to go to bed.
posted by Joel @ 12:47 AM
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